MVP (Most Valuable Partner)

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I was one who loved the sense of independence and individuality. The feeling of having to ask someone to do a damn thing for me was out of the question!!!

After having this hip replacement surgery, the idea of having someone who is willing and wanting to be there for you unconditionally, was something I wouldn’t have never thought I would have in a partner. It’s one thing from your family but having a partner/spouse be there to wash your body, cook your meals, wake up at the sound of you in pain; is one of the best feelings I could’ve ever imagined.

When I say my wife has been hands down the MVP (Most Valuable Partner). She has selfless been on hands and knees waiting on me hand and foot. Yes, I have family and friends, I appreciate those individuals, each and everyone of them for check-ins, gifts and just being who they are in my life. 

She took me outside today-YESSS. She sees that’s just sitting the house was weighing in on me a little bit.

To my wife Angie, you are the Greatest…

In the words of MY WIFE “You can put the pressure on me”!!!!!!

Who in your life has helped you on that road to recovery?

Who is your MVP?

Who can help relieve that pressure?

Are you ready for this Milk & Honey...

She-Me-Her at 40… Which one are you or are you all 3!!!

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